It has recently come to my attention that I am apparently not a ‘people person’. I generally don’t like people b/c I tend to see their faults. Not to say that I am perfect or without fault, b/c everyone knows thats not true! But it seems that I am focused on negative aspects of people’s personality and not on who they are. Thats not fair of me. Its just another one of the things i am working on changing about myself. I think what I need is to be able to look in the mirror and see what problems i have and solve those before even beginning to worry about other peoples problems for them. to quote a friend, i need to try to see people as Jesus see’s them… although I am not sure i agree w/ this in practice I know that the message is right. everyone has there own problems / issues / things about them that makes them, well human… and who am i to judge what is wrong w/ them… no one! I have no right to say what is wrong w/ this person or that. So my resolve to myself is to stop feeling anger towards others and try to love and accept people for who they are and not dwell on their imperfections b/c it is 100x easier to criticize someone elses faults than to change your own….. try it sometime
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